あちら立たてればこちらが立たたぬMeaningsExpression1. it is hard to please everybody; damned if you do and damned if you don't (Proverb)Other spellings彼方あちら立たてれば此方こちらが立たたぬUsage share unknownKanji used立standing upKanji in other spellings彼he方way此this here